Spiritual Friendship: The Skills (3)

God and Slave Traders

The idea of God exists at a deep, deep part of our reality. It is a bedrock of our sense of ultimacy. And this shapes our every action and reaction. There is an axiom we use around the church a lot: “you become like the god you worship.” If yours is a...
Spiritual Friendship: The Skills (3)

Conflict Resolution (part 2)

This is the second of two lessons on conflict resolution. In this lesson we learn the actual technique for resolving conflict. As you heard in part 1, and will have reinforced here, it has more to do with self-awareness and self-disclosure than resolving conflict....
Spiritual Friendship: The Skills (3)

Two-ness vs. One-ness

What kind of craziness is that? Jesus said some things that if we’re honest, are absurd. Love your enemy?  How is that going to work? In this lesson I’ll suggest it’s only possible if we radically alter our most basic ways of thinking about reality....